The Art of Solo Traveling: From Solitude to Self-Discovery
Ten years ago, battling personal struggles and needing a break, I decided to travel solo despite my anxiety about being alone in new places. I booked a ten-day trip from Chennai to Dehradun and Delhi.
My initial anxiety peaked in Rishikesh when I struggled to order food at a local dhaba due to the language barrier. However, the next morning, renting a bicycle proved to be the turning point. Cycling to a hilltop and sharing my solo travel plans with an admiring couple gave me a huge confidence boost. That evening, I dined with friendly locals, realizing my trip would be amazing.
Traveling by bike, bus, and train, I met incredible people. These solo journeys, totaling four across eight new places, gifted me confidence and social skills I couldn't have gained otherwise. Most importantly, I discovered my true self: an introvert, not socially awkward. I learned my likes and dislikes, understanding the importance of not forcing myself into activities just because others do.
Solo travel taught me who I am and how to navigate different situations. If you haven't tried it, I highly recommend it. You'll uncover surprising aspects of yourself and your potential.
How to Travel Solo and Not Alone
People often ask how I meet others while traveling alone. It's simple: I strike up conversations. At airports, buses, or trains, I look for approachable individuals and ask simple questions like, "Where are you flying to?" or "What brings you to this city?" Everyone has stories; you just need to ask. The same applies in cafes and restaurants. As a nature lover, hiking also provides easy opportunities for connection with like-minded individuals.
How to Survive Loneliness
Even with these strategies, loneliness can occur during long trips. For me, nature is my solace. Whether it's a sunset, sunrise, or starry sky with ambient music, nature makes me feel connected. These solitary moments by the Ganges during sunset, listening to music, helped me realize my enjoyment of solitude. I understood that preferring a quiet Friday night wasn't due to social awkwardness but a genuine preference over crowded places. Weekends now involve joyful outdoor activities like stargazing and hiking, boosting my confidence and conversation skills with strangers.
Solo travelers are dreamers who turn their wanderlust into reality!